Spring has sprung, and love is in the air -- so are some fantastic tips on how to make a man fall in love with you! Whenever the weather starts getting warmer, we all start wishing we had a special someone to spend time with. Sometimes, it can be tricky to find - and get! - that great guy you've been wishing for. So, here are 20 simple tips on how to make a man fall in love! It's all about confidence, being yourself and really putting yourself out there!

1. BE YOURSELF

All of my tips on how to make a man fall in love with you surround being yourself. If you're fake, it doesn't matter if you get a guy to fall in love with you, because he won't really be in love with the real you. So, the first idea is to always be myself, no matter what, so a guy likes me for me. After all, you would hate to fall in love with a guy that isn't being himself right?

2. OPTIMIZE YOUR APPEARANCE

Whenever I'm trying to be more attractive to someone, I always optimize. Now, this doesn't mean I starve myself to look thin, buy tons of new clothes, or get a dramatic hair cut. Instead, I just try to make myself look my best. This means a cute outfit that emphasizes my best features, combed and fixed hair, a little makeup, a clean bright smile, and a spritz of light perfume. I do this for myself, so I can be confident in who I am.

3. LISTEN

Guys love to talk about themselves, and they think a girl who actively listens to them is so charming. So, I always listen more than I talk when I was trying to attract a guy. Talk about yourself, current topics, news events, etc about 20% of the time, and let him control the conversation about 80% of the time. If he is attune to women, he will ask you questions too and it'll develop into a nice little back and forth conversation!

4. LAUGH A LOT

Having a sense of humor is really important when you are trying to attract a guy. Laughing at his jokes and even knowing how to take a joke can really make a guy feel like he knows a girl instantly! If you've got a crush, laugh it up a little with him and see how he responds!

5. HAVE A GREAT ATTITUDE

In my experience, guys like girls with cheerful, sunny dispositions. No one likes to hang out with a pessimistic, negative person. So, I always try to look on the bright side of life and be a "glass half full" person when I'm trying to catch a hot guy. People always tend to look my way more often and gravitate toward me when I've got a smile on my face! So flash those pearly whites!

6. BE SWEET

Sometimes, I can be catty... all girls can be. When I'm with my girlfriends, we'll gossip or trash some other girl for being rude or trashy, but that's not a nice way to act. And, let me just tell you, I've learned that this kind of behavior doesn't attract guys. Boys are drawn to girls who are sweet and don't gossip, so keep cattiness and snotty comments to yourself around your new guy. The occasional catty comment is okay, but keep it to a minimum!

7. FLIRT

Some of my friends used to think flirting was beneath them, but I'm telling you - it works. Guys just love to be showered with attention and treated like a king. So, toss your hair a little bit, throw your head back and laugh, grin a lot, and look up and him from under your eyelashes. Even those these old tricks might seem tried and true, they're tried and true because they actually work!

8. BE DIFFERENT

Trying to be unique and different is a way I've always tried to interest guys. I don't want him to think that I'm just like all the other girls out there... instead, I want to be seen as charming, witty, and smart. So, I don't talk about all those same old topics, like school gossip. Ask him about how he feels about current events or newsworthy stories and show him you're worldy!

9. BE WITTY

Everyone has a bit of charisma to them and a witty side, why not show that? I know it can be difficult sometimes, if you are around your crush, but don't get too tongue-tied and just go for it! Remember when I said that a guy likes a girl with a sense of humor? Show that side of yourself to him and be confident in who you are!

10. INITIATE PHYSICAL CONTACT

Guys love physical touch, and touching someone is a quick way to develop intimacy. So, when I'm trying to attract a guy's attention, I will look for ways to bring physical touch into play. For instance, I touch his arm lightly when I'm laughing at a joke, or I'll slap him on the knee playfully if he says something funny, or I'll touch his hand while I'm explaining something.

11. BRING HIM A TREAT

The old saying that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach isn't just an old saying for no reason- it's totally true! I always bake a little treat for a guy when I'm trying to make him fall in love with me, and then I just surprise him with it on a random day. When my husband and I were first dating, I left a bag of treats in his locker before every football game. He just loved it!

12. GIVE HIM FREEDOM

When a guy's trying to determine if you're girlfriend material, he will test you a little bit. My advice at this point is to give him his freedom, and that will send him right back for more. In my experience, if any guy ever got the impression that I'd try to tie him down, he'd be gone lightning fast. So, let your guy know that you value and respect his time with his friends, playing sports, or whatever it is he does in his spare time.

13. LET HIM CALL YOU

When I'm trying to get a guy, I play a little hard to get. I don't call him all the time, try to track him down, or generally make myself a bother. I want him to think that I'm too busy out there having a great time to bother with him, and that he better get in touch with me quickly if he's interested in sharing any time with me! Let him do the pursuing, and he'll be much more interested in you.

14. PRACTICE MIRRORING STRATEGIES

Okay, this seems a little creepy at first, but just hear me out. Whenever I want to impress or charm someone (not just guys, but anyone), I do a little physical mirroring. What this means is taking whatever physical action that person does, waiting about five seconds, and then copying the motion. For instance, if your guy rests his elbow on the table, wait five seconds, and then put your elbow on the table. Sounds silly, but it works! It creates a connection between me and the guy that he just can't explain.

15. MAKE EYE CONTACT

Staring deeply into someone's eyes quickly ramps up the intensity of the connection between two people. So, if I'm trying to get a guy to fall in love with me, I stare deeply into his eyes while we're talking. Now, don't look too long, or you'll appear to be a stalker... but you definitely want extended eye contact. Remember the scenes in Twilight where all the sexual tension developed between Edward and Bella just based on eye contact? That's what I'm talking about.

16. DON'T APPEAR DESPERATE

Guys want someone that is confident and someone that is secure in themselves. Even if you aren't confident, don't worry, there are tons of ways to build it. Start small and just go from there. I know not appearing desperate is hard, but if you appear to have it all together and even play hard to guy? Your crush will like you even more!

17. BE TRUSTWORTHY

Guys love someone they can trust. I learned the hard way that telling my girlfriends every thing about a new guy in my life wasn't the best idea. Word always gets back to the guy that I've talked about what he told me or told details about our time together, and he always bolts. So, discretion is the best policy. Don't tell your girls every little bit of your private conversations, and your guy will trust and respect you much more.

18. LEAVE A LITTLE MYSTERY

When I am trying to attract a guy, I don't want to be an open book to him. I've found that guys like a little mystery... they keep coming back for more if you leave more to find out. Think of your information, history, interests, etc. like a treasure hunt... give your guy little clues, but don't let him find the treasure right away. He'll want to keep calling and asking you out just to learn more about you!

19. BE SUPPORTIVE OF HIS INTERESTS

Guys love it when a girl takes an interest in what he likes to do. Even if you don't necessarily like what he is into (like video games or sports!), just give it a try -- that way you can have some common ground. Guys, that also means that you'll have to take an interest in your girl's interests too! A relationship is a two way street.

20. HOLD OFF ON THE PHYSICAL INTIMACY

My last tip has to do with physical intimacy, or making out, heavy petting , or sex. If you truly want to make a guy fall in love with you, you've got to hold out on stuff like this for as long as you can. Most guys I dated and are friends with just go after a girl for the thrill of the chase at first. It takes time for them to realize that they actually care about the girl. So, hold off on physical intimacy to give your relationship a chance to develop first. Steve Harvey has written a hilarious book that talks about this exact idea!

There you have it... my top twenty tips for getting a guy to fall madly in love with you. Hopefully, with this beautiful weather we're having, we can get out of the house, get flirting, and meet some great guys! Do you have other tried and true tips for catching that great guy? And watch this video if you want HIM love you FOREVER: http://9nl.me/Capturehim

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He will never tell you any of this.
In fact, he's dying to read this article, but he would never let you catch him doing it, and he certainly won't admit to wanting to know if his deep, dark secrets are hanging out like underwear on a clothesline. In the front yard. In the middle of a busy city. (Hah!)

Well, he won't tell you, but I will.

But first, two warnings:

First, this isn't a complete list. Of course! But I think these are the two biggest ones. (I'm working on more articles about a few of the others...)
Second, I'm not telling you so you can shame him. I'm doing this so you can help him. But you have to be sneaky, so that he doesn't know. Be nice to your man – he worships the ground you walk on, and believe me, he knows a few of your dirty dark secrets, too.

On to the juice, shall we?

GUY FEAR #1: My sexual desires are NOT okay

I won't tell you that old thing about how guys want waaay more sex that women do, because it's actually not true. Women want it, we just want it under different terms. He just... wants it. Every possible way he can imagine it. With your sister, your mom, the librarian (definitely the librarian), the teenager snapping her gum behind the cash register. He's even had a dirty fantasy about that weird shopping cart lady.

Sex movies of every description (multiple lovers, bondage, fetish, you name it) run in his brain nearly all the time, and sometimes what's showing on the screen shocks even him.

Deep down, he's terrified that he wants sex too much, or in the wrong ways, with the wrong people. His sex drive is a formidable machine, and it's a testament to his power that he doesn't let it drive his life, only his brain.

What YOU can do to help him

Creating an atmosphere of openness in your intimate life with him is the first step in making him feel less scared about his sexual desire. I'm not saying you have to DO everything that he.

THINKS about, but be willing to ask him to talk about his fantasies. Invite him to give you steamy details. Even the act of sharing can be a tremendous gift of sexual energy between the two of you.

Help him learn to make YOU the star of his sexual mind shows, even if all you do is tell him a dirty story during foreplay.

And finally, don't forget to let him know you're sexually satisfied! If you can do this, he's going to become so riveted by you he'll never want to let you go. EVERY man wants to know he can sexually satisfy a woman. 

GUY FEAR #2: Other men will think I'm weak

 You gotta feel for the men of our world. They're expected to get a respectable paycheck, make us feel secure, (not think about sex so much), beat out the other guys, support the winning team, be tough, overcome all the obstacles in their way, scare away the bad guys, and never show fatigue, fear, or ANYthing except sheer strength and confidence.

It's a lot to live up to.

It's impossible to live up to, actually.

And yet that's the challenge they hear every single day. And if they don't answer it – actually DOMINATE it – their fear is that they will be publicly shamed, humiliated, despised... Not so much by you or by other women (although they hate the idea of that, too), but by other MEN.

But that doesn't mean YOU don't have power. Every man wants a woman who is unreservedly, whole-heartedly ON HIS SIDE. Your support actually adds to his power in the world of other men.

What YOU can do to help him

I have a question for you: if he's fighting away on the field of his life, do you ever even show up at his game? And if you do, can he hear your enthusiastic, genuine support for him?

I'm not saying you have to actually get out your cheerleader skirt and shimmy and shout (although he'll probably appreciate that, see #1 above!), but there IS a way to let him know you're seeing how hard he works, and you want him to win.

Encourage him to tell you about his daily battles. Lean in and attentively soak up every bit. Ask for details. Don't multitask while you're doing this; give him your full focus. Be his raving fan.

And offer him your sincere admiration. Let him know how strong you find him, how amazing his accomplishments and abilities are. If you can make him feel like you believe in him and are on his side no matter what, you are going to ADDICT him to you.

3 Steps to make a man love you

If you're sick of "Bad Boys," "Players" and guys 
who just won't commit, you need to go watch this
 new video renowned relationship expert Michael Fiore put up. It's called "3 Steps To Make A Man Love You" and 
it teaches you how to make a man not just "fall" for a you... But to actually
make him obsessed with you so HE decides he WANTS to be serious... 

 --> Make him powerfully addicted (in a really good way) to you!

Michael lays out the absolute truth about what men
really want and need from a woman for them to be able
to give EVERYTHING to her... (In fact, he flat out tells you how his girlfriend Captured
His Heart and made him fall for her HARD even though
he was "playing the field" and thought he'd never settle down.)

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You're about to learn, hands down, the best way to successfully get a girl to kiss you without fear of rejection. In the advanced version of this technique, you can even get the girl you're talking to to lean in to kiss you! So if you've ever been afraid of getting rejected going for a kiss OR you've gotten "the cheek" you know why having a rock-solid technique to moving in for the kiss is 100% crucial. Going in for the kiss is probably the worst place to face rejection in an interaction with a girl because:

1) You've invested a lot of TIME by this point in the interaction, and there simply isn't enough time in your night to get this far and then hit a brick wall and have to move on.

2) Screwing up this part of the interaction can ruin all chances of moving on from here to seduction. Most guys don't have the chance to learn how to perfect going for a kiss because it happens so infrequently!

Even on a good night, most guys will typically find one girl they hit it off with at the bar where a kiss is probably even a possibility. So normally, you'd have to face a lot of these rejections one by one to learn the best way to successfully go in for a kiss. But luckily, I've already gone through all those failures for you (until I discovered this killer technique), and can present the best way to avoid failure and shortcut right to success.

Sound good? The Kiss Technique makes it so that when you're speaking to a woman, you can intentionally give off subconscious triggers that will make her think about kissing you! Pretty powerful stuff... If you use this technique, suddenly making a woman want to kiss you will be something you have control over. If you decide to "wing it" in the stage like most guys, however, you're going to run into problems...

First, you won't know how physically receptive she is to kissing you. A tried and true rule to go by is this: Your hesitation = Her reservation So the more you hesitate, the worse your chances get, because she starts to build up all sorts of red flags and reservations. When you go to lean in for the kiss and you don't do it the right way at the right time, you'll come off as needy (like you don't have a lot of options with women) because if you did have a lot of options, you wouldn't be worrying about the kiss with this girl.

So how do we show that you are absolutely NOT needy (even if you kind of feel like you are) and provide a way so that you will not fear rejection because you will know for sure ahead of time that she is wanting to kiss you? We use what's called The Kiss Technique. This involves combining two psychological concepts into a perfect recipe for mastering the kiss.

The first concept is called triangular gazing. This will happen while you have built rapport and are looking to move into seduction. It involves looking from one eye to another, then looking at her mouth. When you start looking at her mouth, you will subconsciously start to think about kissing her, because this action is already anchored to the thought of kissing someone.

Even if you look at a woman you're not attracted to and look at her mouth, you can start to think about kissing her, and you will become MORE attracted to her. The good news is...the same happens for women. The even BETTER news is...you can lead her to subconsciously start to do this and feel more attracted.

How? By using the second half of the recipe...another psychological concept called Mirroring. Whenever we are in conversation with someone, we will mirror the leader of the conversation in an attempt to build subconscious rapport with them. When you perfectly combine triangular gazing and mirroring, you have a
combination that will make her subconsciously think about kissing you. After talking with her in rapport, start to look at her mouth. At first, only for 2 seconds, then look back to her eyes. Switch between her left and right eye, then back to her mouth for a few seconds longer. Continue to go from left to right eye and back to her mouth for 2 seconds, 3 seconds, then 5 seconds. Eventually, you want to be mostly looking at her mouth. When she begins to look at your mouth as well, you know for sure that she's ready to kiss you.

Voila! The Kiss Technique takes all of the guess work out of "making a move". You will now know with confidence when she wants to kiss you, and get to be the fully assertive but perceptive man that women find irresistibly sexy. She will feel like you know exactly how to treat a woman and feel safe and confident moving on with you. Now, if you want to take this technique to the next level and make it so that girls will be leaning in to you and basically begging you to kiss them, you only have to know one magical sentence. Learn more about the Kiss Technique and the bizarre, magical sentence that activates her "sexual triggers" and makes her lean and practically beg you for the kiss. read more →

Losing your boyfriend can be painful particularly when he promised to spend forever with you, and you dreamed of living a full life together in the future. Right after you break up, you find yourself thinking up ways on how to get boyfriend back and keep him with you for good. It can’t be that hard, right? After all, you’ve been through the good and bad times together, and you have a nagging suspicion that he still feels something for you.

Do what it takes to get a your boyfriend back - phone and email contact available!

You’re right, it should be easy to learn how to win boyfriend back if you can get over one personal hurdle that’s preventing you from really reconciling with your ex. The problem is that you alone can deal with this inner struggle that’s keeping you from really making up with your ex boyfriend. Your friends can offer support, and they can even volunteer to mediate, but the reality is this: Your chances of getting back together with your boyfriend depend on your ability to deal with this huge personal issue.

So what is it? What’s keeping you from getting your ex back? Some call it pessimism, while others call it ‘negative thinking’. I, however, call it “the loss of hope”.

If you start thinking it’s absolutely futile to chase after your ex, all the time and effort you will spend learning how to win boyfriend back will be wasted. You will lose the sincerity to give your relationship another shot. You will start experiencing paranoia and depression because your mind will automatically reject any notion that you’re going to get back together soon. Worst of all, this notion of hopelessness will lead to self-pitying behavior, which is the main thing you should avoid.

Simply put, the lack of hope will make you oblivious to your happy memories, to the advice you receive from family and friends, and to the subtle efforts your boyfriend could be making to get back together with you. Can you imagine the scenario? There you are trying your best to figure out how to win boyfriend back, but you fail to notice the small things that could mean true reconciliation because your mind is set on rejecting the positive signs. Believe me, the futility mindset is the poison that will kill your relationship, so you have to fight it before it consumes you completely.

So, how to win your boyfriend back.  Here are two things you can do to start believing again:

1. How To Get A Boyfriend Back - Take yourself out of the box.

If your best friend were the one going through the painful process of discovering how to win boyfriend back, you would be spouting buckets of constructive advice, right? Being objective about your break up will make you see things in a different light. You will see the small mistakes that led to the break up, and the solutions to the main problems you’ve had with your boyfriend. Moreover, you will see the whole relationship from a different perspective, and finally remember how happy you were when you were together.

2. How To Get A Boyfriend Back - Hang on to a happy thought.

Let me remind you how Peter Pan learned how to fly: he held a happy thought inside his head to keep him afloat. In your case, the memory of your love will keep your hope afloat, and will prevent the onslaught of bad memories from getting to you.
If you’re determined to map out a plan on how to win boyfriend back, you have to stay optimistic about your relationship. Keeping a positive vibe around you will affect everything you do, and it will also make your ex feel that you’re stable enough to finally listen to what he has to say without over reacting.

Now that you know how negativity can hurt you, we can now discuss the issue of emotional reactions to provocation. You’re human, after all; and this means you will undoubtedly react to specific prompts that will test your perseverance to get your ex back.
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Most women ask how to get a good boyfriend without first analyzing their dating history and why they have not found that ‘good’ guy until now. If you’re someone who has been searching far and wide for your dream guy, you’re in luck.  This article is all about how to get a good boyfriend. Moreover, we will also discuss the qualities that most guys are looking for.

Many girls believe that men are just after sex, and that it takes more than that to make these men fall in love. There has been a lot of debate on this matter, but it’s really all about giving a guy reason to love you back. Do not make the mistake of assuming that love comes automatically when you’re always together. I know a lot of women who have dated men who don’t commit at all. In the end, these women still ask the question how to get a good boyfriend? like most single women in the world.

Here are three tips you can use to find out how to get a good boyfriend.

1. Understand how men perceive love.

You see, men need more than the feeling of being in love to commit. For them, it’s more than the sensation of floating on clouds when you’re together. Men are prone to enjoying the novelty of a new romance, but once the ‘honeymoon phase’ is over, they start questioning their motives for staying with you.
You have to understand the background of your man and how he has experienced real love in the past. First of all, if he has always been a mama’s boy, he will probably feel loved if you cook dinner for him, ask him about his day and remind him to take his vitamins. If he’s a playboy, you have to understand that he’s still very much in love with the feeling of pursuing women and will only fall deeply in love with a girl who won’t judge him harshly for his way of thinking.

2. Give him a way out.

If you’re wondering how this tip is related to learning how to get a good boyfriend, let me point out that this is the best thing you can do if your guy is not yet ready to commit. Regardless of his feelings for you, he will feel suffocated if you trap him inside a relationship when he’s not ready to settle down. He wants to have a choice in the matter before he lets his guard down and loves you completely.

3. Stop comparing him to Mr. Perfect

Here’s a crucial step to take if you really want to figure out how to get a good boyfriend.  You see, most guys know that they’re not perfect, and would feel very uncomfortable staying with a woman who thinks so. Just trust that he will do the best he can to make you happy and don’t paint a perfect picture of him inside your mind. If you do this, he will feel very awkward apologizing to you when he makes a mistake. read more →

How to make a man want you, ask you out and ultimately fall in love with you is something that many women want to know the answer to. If you want to know the solution to this difficult question then read on to discover four useful tips that you can use. We will discuss working out his personality type, improving your conversational skills, impressing with your appearance and trying not to be moody. After reading this article you should have some good ideas in place and have some useful knowledge about how to make a man want you.

In order to get a man to want to you first need to work out his personality type. If he is outgoing then he may be the one to do all the work. He may strike up a conversation with you with little difficulty and all you need to do is go along with this. If however, the man you are after is shy it may be necessary for you to make some of the moves. You may need to be the one who strikes up a conversation with him.

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One of the hardest parts of getting into online dating profile can be making a profile that truly, accurately expresses who you are and what you’re looking for in a match. Although actually making and editing a online dating profile yourself and learning from your mistakes will always be the best method of getting good at it, a few general tips can go a long way toward helping you get started.

Make a mundane unique online dating

Making the mundane unique is maybe the most difficult but ultimately most important part of making a great profile. Instead of writing that you like watching movies and going for walks in the park (like hundreds of others have probably already done), put a little bit of colour into your writing by providing specific details and a bit of  humour. Nobody wants to hear about the boring things you do on a quiet weeknight so instead, write about places you’ve traveled, interesting hobbies you spend time on or something else similarly exciting. If you think about it you’re sure to come up with some stories or details of your life that others will find interesting to read about, make a connection with and want to get to know you so they can talk to you about them.

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Obviously all men look for different qualities in women but there are a number of general characteristics and traits that attract the majority of guys. Here is a list of top ten of the most common things that men want in a women.

1. Straightforwardness

Straightforwardness cannot be underestimated as an incredibly attractive quality to men. One of the biggest things that guys will most often cite as an irritating feminine characteristic is the tendency to dodge around what’s actually on their minds. Instead of speaking in code and hoping a man will understand, the majority just want to know what’s up in plain terms.

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There are certain things that women may like to hear from men, whether they are during an online dating situation or otherwise. Although these can vary from person to person here is a general list of the top ten things women like to hear from a man.

10. “Let me make you dinner tonight.”

Everyone in a relationship loves to be taken care of sometimes and what better way to do this than by making dinner for your partner?

9. “Tell me more about that.”

Men often gloss over the small stuff with talking whether it be drama from the workday or something one of her girlfriend’s said. Engaging in a conversation and asking to hear more shows that a man is actually listening and cares about the details of his partner’s life.

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Women obviously look for different traits in a man but there are a number of pretty universal characteristics that all guys should know about and do their best to express while getting to know a girl. Here is a list of ten things women like in a man.

10. Physical Appearance

Taking pride in your physical appearance. A guy doesn’t have to look like he stepped off the cover of GQ to impress a woman but, just like in a job interview, taking the time to get showered, shaved and dressed before meeting up shows that you care about making an impression.

9. Job

Having some form of gainful employment and passion for your work are essential as well. Women like to know that a man can take care of himself and generate some sort of income. You don’t have to be incredibly rich but just motivated and passionate toward whatever sort of career you work within.

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